There’s something almost no one wants to accept: often, without realizing it, we teach others how to treat us. For years, people of all kinds—bosses, partners, family, friends—have asked themselves the same question: How can I get people to respect me?
The answer is often uncomfortable because it doesn’t focus on changing the other person, but rather on looking at ourselves.
You can’t force anyone to respect you. But you can stop doing the things that invite disrespect. And you’ve probably repeated some of those behaviors today.
Here are five profound changes that can completely transform how others relate to you.
1. Stop giving excessive explanations
